Ok, the term abuse in my perspective and scope this time simply means the mis-usage of certain facilities or equipment or even people to gain personal advantage.
Nowadays, you can see many happy couples strolling down the street especially in shopping complexes but do you know behind those happy couple faces there is a degree of agony usually shown by the guy.
This case is very true in Malaysia where in my experience of observing most guys are being "used" by their GF.
Their GF simply date a guy because the guy has the capability to offer credits such as buying the girl a luxurious meal or hitching the girl a ride in an expensive car. If the guy went broke one day and the routine indulgence given was taken back by their guy, then the guy will be left stranded.
Although most must agree that guys sometimes do abuse their girl physically but girls too abuse guys mentally. Everytime a poor guy has to date with a girl, the 1st thing that come into their mind is "money".
And yet after a great day we planned for them, what we get back in return was a cold shoulder.
Yeah why my post isn't talking about the other way round which is BF abusing their GF?
Because we have all heard and learn from it.
Now the trend is girls are getting a lot smarter. They will only treat you good not only if you treat them good but you should know how to cater their needs, economically. If you fail to meet their expectation, they will begin seeking for others attention. Or normally, give you a cold shoulder.
Now, what a girl want from a guy is not simply love, care, protection, etc etc. Now they want their guy to be their everything. Yeah, in paper it seems that is the way it should be. But usually girl does not want to be everything for their guy.
So girl, please do not always ask the guy to take the initiative to do everything. Sometimes do bring your guy out for a surprise lunch or dinner or give them things besides soft toys. Know what your guy needs as automatically he will know what you need *winkz*.
Ok lah, next time I post the other way round :P
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A bf should cater to his gf's needs and vice versa. As simple as that.
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